Sunday, June 14, 2009

Week 35 and Family Update



Hi everyone!! Thanks so much for all of your notes and comments....the pregnancy is doing awesome - I am feeling great and I have MUCH to update you on!!

Stat Update:
  • Weeks: 35
  • Weight Gain: 19 (average is around 25)
  • Fundus (belly measurement): 33 cm or 33 weeks
  • At last doc appt I had only gained about 3 ounces which kind of worried me but the doc said it wasn't an issue at all - because I have been gaining weight consistently and my belly is still growing, doc says everything is on track.
Monday is my next doc appt (tomorrow) and they will actually do the FULL check up if you know what I mean. With a little less than 5 weeks to go, maybe I will have a little dilation - maybe??

We had two incredible baby showers - one for family and close friends and another with close friends and co-workers. We received tons of wonderful gifts and had a great time!! I have a bit more work to do on the baby room and then will take some pics for you. We have the essentials - crib, diapers, car seat. :) Here are a couple pics from the showers (we are waiting to get more pics from people who took more pics and I will post them for you soon!):



Other fun facts:
  • No stretch marks - YEAH!!! :) Still rubbing the tummy butter every morning and then put on my Bella Band over top. I think it is working!
  • Workouts are definitely getting harder - I am sure it is a combination of additional weight gain, diaphragm getting smaller and just having a bigger belly.
  • Sleep is the biggest challenge right now - tough to find a comfortable position and lots of peeing throughout the night.
  • No swelling - rings still fit. YEAH!
  • LOTS and LOTS of baby movement - getting kicked in the ribs - LOTS and is sometimes painful - I find myself stretching out as long as I possibly can to give the little critter more room.
  • Not so much room in the tummy right now lots of small meals and snacks.
  • Workouts right now are still 3-4 body pump style workouts a week and 3-4 cardio sessions - usually Spin or Elliptical. Will probably go back to walking or even some light jogging in a week or so (once the baby is full term to encourage delivery :) hee hee). Also want to do some yoga again to make sure I am fully stretched and ready.
  • Jody is getting more and more excited about our new family unit and he is going to be an AMAZING daddy. I fall in love with him more each day thinking about what a great dad he will be.
Now, the bad news.....we have had a number of family health challenges over the last month which is one of the main reasons I haven't been posting much. My father in law had double by-pass heart surgery. He did NOT have a heart attack but instead listened to his body - he had very low energy, tingliness in his arms and tightness in his chest. He went to the doc and they found out he had 95% blockage in his main artery. If he would have had a heart attack he would have died instantly with how bad the blockage was....I am so thankful he went to the doctor. He had his surgery about 3 weeks ago and is feeling so much better. Very weak but better. We are so thankful the doc found it so he can enjoy many, many years with his grand baby.

And for the really bad news, my step-dad Jack was diagnosed with bladder and prostate cancer about 2 months ago. He went to the Mayo clinic and had been going through chemo and radiation when they rechecked him and found neither tumors had decreased in size. They then did a bone biopsy and found the cancer has metastasized in his bone. Because he has stage 4 bone cancer they have given him about 4 weeks to live. After talking to my doctor about the situation, she ok'd us to drive to Iowa to see him and say our goodbyes. While the 9 hour trip in the car was not the most comfortable in my current pregnant state, Jody and I were so glad to be able to go visit and spend some time with him to say our goodbyes. It was also really good for my mom to see the baby belly in all its glory - life affirms life and I think me being there eased some of her pain. We also set up a Caring Bridge site for her so that she can post about Jack's health and people can stay updated through the journal versus calling constantly and my mom having to repeat the same thing over and over again. Jody made mom and Jack both laugh a ton which was great to see smiles and hear laughter.

My mom and Jack have been together for 12 years and he is a wonderful person who has had a fantastic life. While it is ending too soon (he is 68), he has done so many amazing things and has had tons of memories to take with him. He has three children and many grand children and has been a great member of our family. I love him dearly and will miss him terribly. I hope this baby will provide a welcome distraction to my mother during her grief....she is going to be a wonderful grandmother and I can't wait for her to meet our new addition.

I can't stress enough how important it is for all of us to live each day in as healthy a way as possible. Both my father in law and my step dad smoked for many many years (35 and 25 years respectively) and didn't exercise or eat well. While it is tragic their health has taken a turn it certainly makes me even more grateful for the health choices I have made - not smoking, exercise and eating well. While I can't stop anything bad from happening, I can certainly decrease the chances.

And make sure that you cherish each moment with those you love - make sure they know much you love them.

Thanks again for your comments and checking in on me....will keep you posted over the next few weeks as we get closer to BABY TIME! :)

Love you guys!
Jess

12 comments:

Jehanne said...

you look amazing! Love that pregnancy glow!

April said...

I agree with the pregnancy glow! What nice things to say about your hubby too :) Your baby will have GREAT parents.

I'm sorry about the other stressful things. Until my grandpa's death recently I never saw the "bad" side to cancer and it's just awful. I'll pray for you and your family.

Krissa said...

Love the pics. You look adorable!

Charlotte Orr said...

Sorry to hear about your bad news. Glad to hear you, baby and Jody are doing well. You look great!

Jacey said...

Great pix! I was beginnging to wonder if you had the baby early and were too busy to post.

So sorry to hear of the bad health news in your family. I can relate to all of it. I love your perspective at the end. How true!

Kelly Olexa said...

You look amazing just precious. I'm thinking of you and praying for you and the family sweets.
XOXO

B said...

you look beautiful!!!!

love the blue dress on you!

happy to hear you are feeling well

I'm more of a lurker now but know I'm still reading

B

Krissa said...

IS that baby here yet??????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Jacey said...

Just checking in with you. Hope all is well!!! Can't wait for an update. Maybe some baby pix???

Evelyne said...

YES we need an update! Lbs, ounces, length all that good stuff! Hope all is well! I'm sure you're busy!

Jacey said...

Holy moley - yesterday was your due date! Can't wait to hear how things are going. Just wanted you to know I'm thinking of you and Jody and the Baby Juicer.

Best wishes!

Angela said...

Hope all is well!!!! Cant wait to hear the news :)